Ties That Bind
Walter Lamar as an infant is held by his father and is with his great-grandmother and grandmother in front of a traditional Wichita grass dwelling

In this 1955 photo, left to right, Walter Lamar (held by his father, Newton Lamar) is with his great-grandmother Hush se ah and grandmother Mae Lamar Davis in front of a traditional Wichita grass house in Oklahoma.

Photo Courtesy of Walter Lamar

In this 1955 photo, left to right, Walter Lamar (held by his father, Newton Lamar) is with his great-grandmother Hush se ah and grandmother Mae Lamar Davis in front of a traditional Wichita grass house in Oklahoma.

Photo Courtesy of Walter Lamar

A 100-year-old cradleboard made of wood and wrapped in colorful cloth

The colorful cotton wrappings on this cradleboard are flexible yet secure enough to hold a baby comfortably in place. A flat piece of wood at the bottom (missing here) would have served as a foot stand.

“I’tsats” (cradleboard), Hush se ah Lamar (Mrs. Walter Lamar, Wichita, 1876–1961), Oklahoma, circa 1900; willow wood, hide, velveteen and cotton cloth, hide thong and wool yarn; 32” x 12.6” x 5.5”. 2/1961

Photo by NMAI Staff

The colorful cotton wrappings on this cradleboard are flexible yet secure enough to hold a baby comfortably in place. A flat piece of wood at the bottom (missing here) would have served as a foot stand.

“I’tsats” (cradleboard), Hush se ah Lamar (Mrs. Walter Lamar, Wichita, 1876–1961), Oklahoma, circa 1900; willow wood, hide, velveteen and cotton cloth, hide thong and wool yarn; 32” x 12.6” x 5.5”. 2/1961

Photo by NMAI Staff

Hush se ah was born in 1876 as a member of the Wichita Tribe of Oklahoma. Like many other Indigenous children at that time, she and her younger brother were sent to a government school. But soon after, a fire broke out there, killing him. Hush se ah’s parents brought her home and continued to teach her traditional ways. As a result, she never learned English, and as she raised Lamar’s father, Newton, and aunt Doris, they were among the last fluent speakers of the Wichita language.

In 1909, Hush se ah’s husband, Wichita tribal member Walter Lamar, sold the cradleboard that had carried their daughter to anthropologist Mark Raymond Harrington, who was collecting objects for the institution that would later become the National Museum of the American Indian. In 2019, during a decade-long project to supplement the museum’s records, NMAI Curator Ann McMullen read a note that “Mrs. Walter Lamar” had made this cradleboard. After reviewing some census information, she reached out to the husband of NMAI Director Cynthia Chavez Lamar, who is also named Walter Lamar, and notified him. He immediately knew this was the name of his great-grandmother, but he didn’t rush to view the cradleboard. He said, “I needed to wait until I was emotionally ready to see it.”

A year later, Lamar, who is also Blackfeet, and Cynthia were guiding a Blackfeet tribal delegation through the museum’s collection at the Cultural Resources Center in Suitland, Maryland. It was then Lamar saw the cradleboard for the first time. When he finally touched it, he said, “I just sobbed. I could feel the intense connection and it just coursed through me. It was so real, so palpable.”

Lamar is grateful that the museum has preserved his family’s cradleboard, a tether to the past. “One day, my kids and grandkids will come here and feel that same connection,” he said. “This is our identity. This is our history. This is our heritage.”

Lamar also encourages others, particularly Native language speakers and elders, to search the NMAI collection online (AmericanIndian.si.edu/collections/search) and provide additional information about these items. He said, “This is absolutely critical while we still have our knowledge keepers.”